If being yourself is the most natural thing to do, why do we struggle to break the generational patterns of traumas and scarcity that gets passed down?

These are handed down to us like heirlooms from our grandmothers, to our mothers, and now to us.

As women, we often find ourselves trapped in patterns of lack and limitations, deeply rooted in our lineage.

BUT, what, if you can energetically reverse engineer the cycle? Dissolve and releasing the resistance that persists?

Do you think that you have to follow the rules so you couldn’t possibly change? It’s just the way things are.

Recognizing and Breaking the Cycle

Generational Stories

• My grandmother did not have an education.  She prioritised others’ needs over her own, often putting the needs of others above hers. 

• My mother was a homemaker, she didn’t pursue a career.

• I was in line to follow the same path.

Having financial freedom was just so far from mind.  Recognising the cycle and the desire to break the pattern,  put me on the path to sync up with intuitive guidance and create financial abundance.

History has perpetuated long and costly barriers for women; internal and external legacy playing out daily.

And it’s because of this;

Women have a hard time to see themselves as worthy of wealth and success.  This mindset can be traced back through generations where women  reenact things they see in the home from parents, grandparents - to what is attainable .

Highlighting the generational cycle that keeps women perpetually in struggles of lack and limitations even if to the outside world they appear to have it all. 

Handed down through the DNA and cellular structure just like an athlete or musician inheriting their generational talents.

And yes, you can flip the script. Breaking free from the imprints, cords, and illusions that run through your bloodline.

Rewiring For Abundance

It takes 7 generations back and 7 generation forwards to break the cycle. Those hardwired imprints, cords, beliefs and illusions need to be shattered in 1000 pieces. 

Have you ever felt achieving your goals is harder than you expected. You make up these stories why you can’t have “it.” Inside, you are carrying the energy of worthiness. You created the feeling of unworthiness taken from your mamma, and your mamma’s mama.

There’s a simple way… and takes no more than 4 steps.

Step Change. Are you getting the results you wanted?

Ask yourself:

• How do women in my lineage receive love, respect and resources”?

• Were they conditioned to give endlessly without expecting anything in return? 

•  How do I feel emotionally when I’m making decisions about my value - not your time - YOUR VALUE?

Practical Exercise: Mapping Your Story

Breaking free the patterns heals the nervous system and remove the shame around taboo topics.

And, when you know where the trauma is stored in the body (emotional or mental) the chakra affected, the maternal or paternal lineage, the belief of lack or limitation. You get to turbo boost manifesting abundance.

Work hard and you’ll get notice - that’s what Sarah was told.  Keep your head down, do as you’re told and the recognition comes …. But yet, she had situations manifesting connected to her energetic blocks of “aiming too high”.  Sarah’s energetic imprints was that fulfilling her wishes can have negative consequences.

These were behaviors modeled down through generations.

The Pivoting.

Generation of women have been sold the grand story that marriage is the ticket to security.  Even now women earn less than men. BUT manage 90% of household budgets.

The apprehension and blocks towards money …… because it symbolizes power and independence they were told they couldn't have. 

To connect to your infinite power, start by knowing your current location with the intent to smash your limitations. And there are all levels. By doing the inner work, embracing the wounded child, reassuring her it’s safe - You soar, safe to be and feel successful.

Authenticity & Gratitude To Heal

What you resist persists. Like a cork bubbling underwater, our suppressed desires will eventually resurface.

Everyone deserves the choice to be comfortable and secure. BEING magnetic, in your integrity = collaborate not compete.

Connecting to gratitude + authenticity from the heart center is the connection to in-sourcing your power = leaving the ladder down, extending it even further for other women in the lineage to soar. Because your healing is modeling for other women to heal.

Taking action is the first step of breaking any cycle.  Your capacity to hold what you want expands.

Even better;

• You revisit your lineage and question what’s for and not for you

• You find the freedom in you to in-source, your power, safety and your purpose

• You update your energetic codes and cellular structure to shift your life

The legacy of sustainable wealth, sweet abundance and prosperity in more fertile soil is the norm for your children’s children, not the exception.

Clearing The Path For The Next Generation

Many of us are operating from depleted, dense soil. So the creation is not good as it could be. Just more chaos and a dis-regulated nervous system.

By going inwards, healing the nervous system, you can innovate, smash the hustling and challenge yourself to think bigger. Your generational golden ticket.  You’re creating from wholeness and soaking in the energy … not from what you’re running from.

Bottom line, breaking your generational lineage, also breaks the cycle for your grandmother, mother and future generations.

Share Your Story?

• What patterns have you noticed in your family?

• How are you working to break the cycle and manifest abundance?

If you’re looking to break the generational cycles, remember this ….

1. Never apologise for the desire to create bigger

2. Trust your intuition. The power you have, take it into every life area.

3. Triumph requires healing. You’re suppose to feel uncomfortable. There are no shortcuts or quick fixes. You know when your soul is calling.

Summer of Gratitude. This summer, I’m challenging you to combine gratitude in every moment, big or small. Small moments make big memories, so let’s celebrate all the little things and look back on an epic summer!

Let’s do this, Soulful Alchemizers. I can’t wait to hear from you and see your moments of gratitude.

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